A compassionate man fulfills his terminally ill friend's dying wish by helping her lose her virginity. He gets global admiration and reassurance.
A man recieved global admiration for sharing his story about helping his terminally ill friend experience intimacy for the first time. In general, stories about losing one's virginity are associated with feelings of awkwardness or embarrassment, but this man had the courage to plan a memorable experience for his friend.
On Reddit, the man (who chose to remain anonymous) explained that he had been friends with the woman for six years, during which time her cancer had returned aggressively. She decided to forego further chemotherapy and cherish the time she had left.
One evening, the woman confided in him about her virginity after a few drinks. She shared that she didn't want to experience her first time with a stranger, but rather with someone she trusted - him. He emphasized that she never pressured him, and he was prepared to decline if he felt uncomfortable. However, he chose to oblige, arranging a luxurious hotel room adorned with candles for an unforgettable experience.
"She didn’t force me to do anything I didn’t want to, she asked but was willing to drop it and pretend it never happened if I decided no."
Reflecting on the encounter, the man noted that he felt intense emotions, as it was his first time being physically intimate with someone he cared for deeply but wasn't romantically involved with. After the woman's passing, he questioned whether he had exploited her vulnerability by agreeing to her request even though 'she seemed so happy she got to lose her virginity to someone she trusts'. However, an outpouring of supportive comments from readers reassured him that he had compassionately honored her wishes.
"You did so right by her. I’m sorry for your loss, she seemed like an amazing woman," one person commented.
Another wrote: "You did 100% what was right. You made her dying wish come true, not because you were in love but because you loved her."
The man expressed gratitude on Reddit for the overwhelming support he received and emphasized the significance of the shared sentiments during his time of reflection. In conclusion, this man's selfless act of kindness deserves our utmost respect and admiration.
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